sacstatedg.com

This site should be a primer for anyone interested in meeting someone online!! Required reading!

Went through the usual internet dating goofiness: chatroom weirdos, a young lady asking to move in with me after ten minutes of chatting, one young lady who only wanted to send me pictures of LEBANON(?) and many more too numerous to mention. One night on the old Yahoo Conversation feature I posted a small ad saying I was looking for conversation, don 't like cybering but would flirt if given a chance. Ended up that night chatting with Irena. I really liked her but honestly didn 't think it would amount to anything.

We IMed for months, spoke on the phone and wrote letters and finally met…she flew CROSS-COUNTRY and we spent ten days on a long car trip. Seems like a dangerous thing to do; I guess it was but it worked out beyond my wildest expectations. Three months after we “met ” (three months of “I MISS YOU!!! “) I made my own cross-country trip for a “visit. ” The “visit ” is still going on over a year later, things are going fine and we are very happy.

Advice for those still in the 'net game. Remember, the internet is sort of like a dark alley. If you are careful, and keep your mace nearby you can get where you are going. By all means read the stories on here and remember, both the good and bad CAN HAPPEN TO YOU!!!

I first logged on to this chatroom on dec 2001..little did I know I would meet and get to know that man who would in not too long become my fiancee and become the father of one beautiful baby girl and father to baby girl #2…

We talked for 6 months via phone and internet we agreed to meet the follow june 2002..he flew to edmonton alberta and met me in my hometown of rocky mountain house alberta canada…since he was comming from Iceland it was a far was to come…he drove alone from edmonton to rocky so I wouldnt have to go to him he said if me being closer to home made me feel comfortable he said he would come to me…so june 7 at 1130 am we met for the first time face to face…

I heard of girls saying the guys they met on the internet we usually never like how they discribed themselves completely…he was..we went and had lunch with a very good friend of mine then we decided to go to red deer…we stopped in eckville for him to meet my best friend..we went shopping in red deer and we got along great there was no wierdness around us we laughed at all the times we talked and said how we couldnt believe how this could happen…we spent a week together driving all over central and southern alberta…we went camping to save money and we had wonderful memories made from driving to golden for towels from lake louise to driving to jasper from lake louise for kentucky fried chicken…then after the week was over we went home to meet my family…the first one we met was my mom she called my brother and told him he is such a nice guy after 10 mins…he was a hit with everyone else especially my nephew of 13 yrs…he was a big guy over 6 ft and weighting close to 250lbs…

After spending 2 months in cananda we left for Iceland…it was my turn to see his country in which I had no fear of cause I trusted him totally…we landed in iceland at 6 30 am…his family welcomed me with open arms ….they took us home and we slept almost all day until we heard knocking and people telling will let us in we wanna meet her!!!…

I spent 2 months in iceland I left 1 month pregnant…my family was very happy..in feb 2003 he landed in calgery to live for a few months…april 19th at 6 50 am I gave birth to our daughter michaela elisabet ….now here we are back in iceland with michaela going babababa to our little baby girl in my tummy…I am due march 6 2004….and the scarifice and nervousness was well worth the journey to find a man who I will love the rest of my life and baby girls who will always remind me on how our little family got started…..

Married forty years; widowed three months, I went online, on the night of what would have been 'our' 41st wedding anniversay….searching for companionship….”Friendship First” was the specification,from 'there,' whatever! The first and only “picture and profile” to appear when my 'mouse' clicked into Yahoo Personals “local males in Charleston, S.C.” was a man with the nickname of “Wolf;” a gorgeous long blond-haired blue-eyed hunk-of-a-man twenty-four years my junior.

“Wolf” and I Im-ed for two hours, the entire time professing great interest in our meeting. I was hesitant; caught-up in the 'age thing;' feeling 'strange'to do-so. “Wolf” assured me NOT to concern myself with such nonsense;he was 'fine with it,' thus proceeding to IM me 'personal references,' proving he was ALL he said he was and MORE! he WAS/IS an 'o.k. guy.' Living only two miles apart, we agreed to meet mid-way for breakfast.To say there was “mutual chemistry” there would be putting it mildly, sary as it was, there was definitly MORE than just “physical attraction!”

As the days, weeks months passed, our “one on one” relationship blossomed forth into a close, loving one, we having discovered we had MUCH in common than ever imaginable. Enjoying the SAME OLD movies; caring for the same actors; listening attenativly to our favorite 'oldies' of the 70's; experiencing a great passion for various gourmet foods and being spontaneous with week-end, “spur-of-the-moment” getaways.It was totally 'mind-boggling; a MATCH made in heaven!

At the time of our first get-together, I thought of “Wolf” as a man I could truly care for. I was NOT looking upon him as a son, I had/have two, just about a year or two older than he; “Wolf” was/is NOT looking for a “mom,” his lives a mile from my/our apartment; I have NEVER, nor do I NOW financially support him, he is very generous towards me and my wants and needs; he's an excellent provider, though MOST of all a warm, loving, compassionate man whom I absolutely love,idolize,admire and adore!

Against my four children's wishes (they ALL attended the same high school,at the same time hence the “objection”) “Wolf” and I married sixteen months to the day of our first meeting. NEVER in OUR ENTIRE lives has either one of us EVER been HAPPIER

Continuing our theme of talking about online dating sites, we wanted to recommend this one, mainly because they have such a shortage of guys in their membership, and are desparately seeking guys, young, shy, geeky, or anything in between, because they have too many girls looking to meet guys. And these girls are very forward, let me tell you. They want to do ALL the work.

Carly is a member. Chat to her now! Free Signup Here.

Alecia is online now…. Signup Free… Click Here Now!

Don't look any further than benaughty.com if you are looking for a reputable online dating website. Free to browse profiles. Too many girls, we need shy guys.

Don't look any further than benaughty.com if you are looking for a reputable online dating website. Free to browse profiles. Too many girls, we need shy guys.

Kate is online right now…. sign up free! Click here Now.

I am not going to lie, I am a pretty attractive girl. You would think it would be easy for me to find a guy. And well, you would be right. But, finding a shy, normal guy that I can connect with and will find me sexy is another story. Most guys I have met are really interested in telling me about themselves, and having me be really interested in their life and friends. And, while I am definitely like that, I really like to exchange stories, more than biographies. Anyway, long story short, I go into online dating through my facebook contacts, and found my current guy. I wanted to write this up for everyone, because its waay better than most people think. Its probably safer than chatting to people on facebook, and you can get a lot more honesty out of people these days… especially if you are prepared to give a little yourself. And, the best advice I would give anyone thinking about online dating, is to make sure the person shows you their online profiles at a reputable online dating website. But, then the trick is to match it up with their facebook profile.
Facebook and online dating websites go hand in hand, and are perhaps the single biggest step forward in the industry for a long time, in my very uninformed and not-so-humble opinion. Because you can see someone is serious about hooking up with a cool, sexy guy when they are prepared to fork out for a paid membership at a good dating site, but you can verify that they are who they say they are by finding them on facebook. And, who is not on facebook these days.
Anyway, that is my tip, match the two together, and happy dating! See you on the other side….